Sex Dolls | Good Solution for Sexless Marriage?
Jezebel takes us on an enlightening tour of the $6,000 sex doll factory, and the comments are amazingly thoughtful. Behind the alleged creepiness of the sex doll experience is an honest need for attachment that evolves beyond the initial sexual experience.
Anne has written extensively on the topic of sex dolls and agrees that their fully-automated robotic arrival in on the near-horizon.
The first lines in the "Guys and Dolls" video underscores the fact that sex dolls provide men with the sexual companionship that real women cannot. In many cases this is true, although one shouldn't jump to judgemental conclusions about the sex doll user.
In the first story in "Guys and Dolls", the segment ends with a touching confession that the sex doll is loved because her owner knows what to expect from her. The doll is constant in her devotion to him and he treats her blissfully in return.
It's simple to call all these men dysfunctional, but one must dig more deeply into the psychology of the situation. At her provocative best, Anne actually sees sex dolls as a realistic answer to the modern marital dilemma where one partner has lost all interest in sex but doesn't want a divorce.
Sex Dolls for Sexless Marriages
We know that a sexless marriage is typically one step away from divorce court. Men are opting out of sex in increasing numbers, and this condition shouldn't be regarded as a class problem of women who aren't interested in sex.
Yes, there is a guy sex doll, too, and we have no word on his sales. It's a well-known fact that most wives who have lost interest in sex or believe they've outgrown a need for sexual activity, do not approve of their husbands' masturbating or watching porn.
These views that scorn any sexual life for the other partner -- whether held by wives or husbands -- are completely unrealistic in today's world.
Introducing a sex doll into the equation could be a good solve for the partner who is not interested in sexual activity. No more lying about headaches or being too tired; no more pretending to be asleep.
In a recent iVillage survey, married women said they would rather sleep, read a book or watch a movie than have sex. We don't see men getting a divorce to marry their sex doll and therefore, believe that's it's a valid sensual option in keeping relationships together and lowering America's divorce rate.
In fact many men don't want a divorce. They just want an active sex life with a woman who appears to enjoy it. Increasing numbers of women say the same thing. For people who genuinely love each other and an active sex life is their major challenge, a sex doll may be the answer.
These two videos introduce you to the world of sex dolls. "Honey Pie" is six minutes in length and well worth the time. "Guys and Dolls" is 45 minutes.
Not always reasoned in their writing, Jezebel scores well here -- without giving an inch of possibility that women's actions have anything to do with sex doll usage. We will not condemn them, because it's a good read on most fronts.
Honey Pie
In this 45 minute video, "Guys and Dolls" takes us into the psychology of the sex-doll buyer. The video is produced in well-marked segments, so you don't require 45-minutes for a single watching.
Guys and Dolls
Anne's articles on sex dolls include:
Sex Talk | Roxxxy: Perfect Partner Sex Robot
Sex Talk | Never Hearing ‘Not Tonight, Honey’| Pt 1
Sex Talk | Never Hearing ‘Not Tonight, Honey’ | Pt. 2
One day a few months ago, Anne went off the deep end, discovering that men are marrying their pillows. Here you read the wrath of a woman scorned. Luckily, she's returned to normal.
Wednesday, July 14, 2010 at 4:01PM
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